Meeting a man the old fashion way just didn't pan out so I'm back to Match. I've also had thoughts about trying out eHarmony again but just can't commit to the cost and the time it takes to update my profile. It's on my list of 'to-dos' that's about 64 items long.
One of the things that really irks me about Match is the empty email. Meaning no subject line and a few words in the body, like "Hi." or "Your cute" (yes I know that is grammatically incorrect, but that's typically how they spell it.) Or the one today, asking if I liked guacamole and if I wanted to get naked. Um, are you going to smear guac all over me when I get to your house? Add that to the list of obscure fetishes.
Ok I'm definitely revisiting eHarmony, score! $9.95/month special for 3 months, lets try this out again. Updates to come...
Also update from silent treatment man from my last post. It turns out he just went mental. He texted me and said he's going through a thing and needs to figure out what's happening in his head. As one of my friends said, ABORT! ABORT!!
I've gone out with the guy I met at the bar a few times and we've always had a good time and good conversation, I even made him a non-meat eaters dinner (he's a meat eater) one night and he didn't complain.
Fast forward to this past weekend. We had plans on Friday which were cancelled by him, excuse was that he had a long week, was tired, was grouchy, blah blah blah. Ok, cool with me, I get that everyone has those days. We made plans for Saturday night instead. I didn't hear from him all day and when I finally did, he asked what I wanted to do. I suggested a show or a movie or something and then didn't hear back from him for close to 2 hours.
So I'm a little more than a little Type A and absolutely hate when we have plans and then you go quiet. So you need a nap, a shower, need to walk the dog? Just tell me for f@$k sake! Don't leave me hanging- it makes me all grouchy.
When I finally heard back from him he didn't have any good ideas for plans. So we settled on the Broncos pre-season game, nothing like getting excited to cheer on the Donkeys!! We met at a restaurant/bar that I suggested as he had zero ideas. We met, got a table and this is where things took a giant nose dive. No more good conversation or smiles or compliments or gentlemanly gestures. Just coldness, and silence and boredom.
He knew that I had a lot going on this week, but I thought I'd hear something from him, if only a Hi, hello. But nope. Just the silent treatment. Pure radio silence.
It's obvious you don't want to go out with me again, but please have the common courtesy to let me know instead of leaving me hanging! Douche.
